Every day we encounter many energies from different kinds of people, some positive and some negative. Have you ever noticed how you feel when spending time with certain people? When spending time with positive people it makes us feel good, but spending time with negative people who drain your energy, can make us feel physically and emotionally drained and exhausted. These people are called "Energy Vampires"!
If you are an Intuitive empath like myself, or someone who is sensitive to the energies of others, it can be torture to be around these kinds of people. You can actually take on the pain of others either emotionally or physically. Energy vampires tend to be drawn to compassionate, sensitive people. These individuals can be drama filled, malicious, overbearing, or even be oblivious to the negative energy they exude. Energy vampires can even be family members, spouses, or co workers, which makes it difficult to get away from them. Energy Vampires usually have a lower energetic vibration. As an attempt to heal their inner turmoil, they will energetically drain the person with a higher energetic vibration. This is usually something they are not even intentionally aware of. However, it is important for you to understand that you are not responsible for resolving their issues. Being an empath makes you an extremely compassionate person, due to the fact that you can feel the emotions of others. However it is them who is responsible for sorting out their own drama and emotional turmoil, NOT you.
Whenever possible, it is very important for you well being to distance yourself from energy vampires. However, we can't always control who we have to be around. Some of these people are family members or co workers. So, unless you quit your job or move far away, you will need to find ways to protect your energy field. There are many crystals that you can keep within your aura to protect you from energy vampires. These crystals can be carried as tumbled stones, worn on jewelry, or kept in your workspace.
Here are my crystal suggestions for protection against these energy sucking individuals.
Labradorite can protect your aura from energy vampires by deflecting negative energies. It creates a shielding force around you, and can help to block people's energies and problems from invading your energetic space. Labradorite enhances your intuition which can be helpful for knowing which people to stay clear of.
Black Tourmaline is one of the best protection gemstones you can wear. It not only removes negative energy, but changes it to positive energy. It has an excellent effect on your well being. It is a strong grounding stone. It offers protection from psychic attack, negative entities, and energies from others and your surroundings. Black Tourmaline helps to release stress, anxiety, and depression. This is helpful for empaths who take on the negative emotions of others.
Citrine is a crystal that promotes happiness and well being. It holds no negative energy, so it never needs clearing. It emits large amounts of positive energy and clears overpowering negative energy. Citrine can release the energies of those who are attaching themselves to your auric field, and helps to prevent them from reconnecting.
Selenite is an extremely high vibrational crystal. It has the ability to self cleanse and recharge itself. It can also cleanse other crystals. Selenite is a highly protective stone. It acts to shield our aura from negative energy and outside influences. It can also be used to cut energetic cords or ties with others. Energetic cords are psychic attachments or energetic ties of invisible energy between two people. Whenever I feel that a negative energetic cord has been formed with an energy vampire, I write their name on a piece of paper and put a piece of selenite on top of it. I actually keep a large selenite tower in the salon I own. For more information on this subject read my blogCutting Energetic Cords and Attachments
Whenever I need to be around energy vampires this is a meditation I like to do.
. Hold these 4 crystals in your left hand (you can even do this without crystals)
. Take a deep breath in and imagine a white light filling your body
. when you breathe out envision a white light or protective bubble surrounding you
. set an intention that no one else's energy can penetrate this bubble
I hope you found this blog helpful. Please feel free to ask any questions below. I would be happy to answer them
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Crystals & Gemstones To Attract Prosperity & Abundance
Do you wish to attract prosperity and abundance into your life? If you use genuine crystals and gemstones, they will help you to raise your vibration. When we vibrate at a higher level we are a vibrational match to the things we want to attract. By keeping a positive attitude you will effect change more easily. Crystals and gemstones help to keep us in a more positive state by balancing our chakras, or our energy centers in the body
When you are trying to manifest money do not keep focusing on your current circumstances. By doing this you are focusing on lack and lowering your vibration. Believe fully with your heart and soul that you will receive abundance, because doubting you have what it takes, will attract just that. Once you put your dreams into the universe, they will come to when you vibrationally match your desire . Believe and stay positive, and the universe has no choice but to bring it to your door.
Meditation is one of my favorite ways to manifest. Hold the image in your mind and visualize what it feels to have it. Hold that feeling while you listen to your breath. When we meditate we are relaxed and have a higher vibration. During meditation If prosperity is what I am looking to attract, I will hold these four crystals listed below in my left hand.
CITRINE is often called the merchant stone, this stone increases cash flow and teaches us to attract and keep wealth, prosperity and success by removing negative energy. It's frequency awakens creativity and imagination, and helps with the process of making dreams and wishes a reality. Citrine encourages joy of life, new beginnings and new pursuits.
Green Aventurineis known as the stone of Opportunity, this stone attracts luck and wealth, promotes confidence, and helps you embrace change. It is a crystal that aligns conditions so “opportunity” is inevitable. Green Aventurine releases old patterns, habits and disappointments so new growth can take place. It brings optimism, positivity, and love of life.
Jadecreates a positive attitude toward money, promotes good luck and attracts money into your life. Jade also attracts new opportunities. Its signifies wisdom gathered in tranquility, dispelling the negative and encouraging you to see yourself as who you really are.
Garnetdraws abundance into your life, releases bad Karma, and eases depression. Garnet is a great manifestation crystal because it is used to ground one's dreams in reality, bringing abundance, prosperity, and realization of those dreams. Emotionally it is considered a stone of strong commitment, honesty, hope, and faith, while stimulating positive thoughts
I find the combination of these gemstones very powerful . I keep them in my purse and in the cash draw of the salon I own . I have combined all four of these crystals on myProsperity & Abundance collectionjewelry, which will enable you to surround yourself with their energy every time you wear it . Visit my website for crystal healingReiki jewelry for every purpose.SpiritualDivaJewelry.Com
Crystals and gemstones are a part of my everyday life. I have them in every room of my home, the salon I own, In my car, and I wear them on jewelry every day. I truly believe in the power of crystals and their ability to enhance your life, protect your energetic field, and manifest your desires.
You vibrate at a certain level depending on your mental and physical state . Crystals vibrate at a different levels, and when you have them in your auric or energy field they raise your vibration to meet its own. They coincide with your energy centers called Chakras. Crystals help to unblock your chakras, and clear your energy centers of stuck and negative energy. This makes you vibrate at a higher level. When we vibrate at a higher level , we are less depressed, healthier, more intuitive, and are able to attract the things in life that vibrate at a higher level. In order to manifest the things we desire we need to be an energetic match to that very thing .
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Below are my top 10 recommendations for raising your vibration, keeping you in a positive inner state, and manifesting your desires in 2017
1. Black Tourmaline
Black Tourmaline is one of the best crystals to protect you from negative energy from people and your surroundings. Being intuitive, I am extremely sensitive to negative energy. It makes me feel bad, and exhausted. I almost always have one on me, or near me. Weather Its in a piece of jewelry I wear, a tumbled stone in my pocket, or a big sphere in my space. Black Tourmaline not only protects your auric field, but it takes negative energy and transmutes it to positive energy. It is also a great grounding stone, helps with depression, fear, and is good for clearing your root chakra . I use Black Tourmaline on my Protection Collection.
Kyanite is a very high vibrational stone. It does not hold negative energy, so it never needs to be cleared . I own so many crystals, that sometimes it's hard to clear them all of energy they might acquire, but I I always know I can use kyanite as my go to crystal. Kyanite is a great crystal to keep on or near you. It has the amazing ability to align and unblock all your chakras. I find that it vibrates at such a high frequency, that when I meditate with it, or have it on me, my intuition is always spot on. Kyanite can also be used for telepathy, if you and another person both own a piece. It is also a great stone for pain relief.I use it on my Chronic Pain Collection for this reason. If I place a piece on my forehead when I have a migraine, It's gone within a half hour.
Amethyst has so many uses, I actually use it 3 of my jewelry collections. Stress and Anxiety, Protection, and Give Me Strength. It relieves Stress and Anxiety, and provides calmness patience. It helps with releasing anger and fear driven emotions. Amethyst can show us how to let go and trust, so we can see beyond thy cycle that consumes us. This is a stone of transformation, promoting inner peace and strength in times of grief and depression. Amethyst is also an amazing crystal for psychic protection. It also helps with addictions and repairing holes in our aura. I always keep an Amethyst sphere on my nightstand , because it relaxes my mind. I often will hold a piece in my left hand during meditation when i am anxious or stressed.
Rose quartz is a must have for attracting love, your soulmate, or when you need to learn how to truly love yourself. Which is why I use it on my SoulmateCollection. I must say, every time I have met someone whom I have had a long relationship with, I have been carrying or wearing Rose Quartz. Its nurturing vibration teaches us to mother ourselves, and to have self compassion. It helps transmute heavy, sorrowful energies into a lighter, positive energy. Rose quartz unblocks your heart chakra, and helps you let go of self sabotaging beliefs, which is a must to attract and keep love. It also increases fertility and provides energetic protection during pregnancy and childbirth. I use Rose Quartz on my Fertility and Pregnancy Collection.
Jade is known as the "stone of luck". It carries the vibration to attract money and love into you life . It creates a positive attitude towards money, thus working with the law of attraction to attract things at a similar vibration. It helps to let go of the feeling of lack, and fear of lack. I use it on my Prosperity and Abundance Collection for this reason. Jade is also great for feelings of grief and depression. It is a “Crystal of Tranquility”. It Soothes the emotions and helps keep peace. It provides a sense of self-worth and strength to endure painful situations. It promotes harmony and balance through emotional detachment. Jade is an excellent stone for recovery after a traumatic experience. I use it on my Give Me Strength Collection for this reason.
Citrine is a crystal of happiness. It is also another crystal that holds no negative energy and emits large amounts of positive energy. It serves as a reminder to be in the now. It encourages you to maintain a positive state of mind to attract everything you want in life. Which is why I use Citrine on my Pure Joy Collection. Citrine is often called the Merchant Stone, this stone increases cash flow and teaches us to attract and keep wealth, prosperity, and success by removing negative energy and raising your vibration. I keep a piece of Citrine in the cash drawer at the salon I own. I use it on my Prosperity and Abundance Collection.
Selenite is one of my favorite crystals in which I use to cut energetic cords or ties with people. Energetic cords are psychic attachments or energetic ties of invisible energy between two people or a past situations that hold a strong emotional pull with another person. These same cords have a way of keeping things and people in your energetic field that you no longer want in your life . Selenite is a highly protective stone. It acts to shield our aura from outside influences . I actually own a 1.5 foot selenite tower. I will write a person's name on a piece of paper. I then take my selenite stick or tower and place it on top of it. You can also carry a tumbled stone with you, or hold it in your left hand during meditation. This will ensure the energy cords stay cut and will prevent future attachments. Selenite is another crystal that does not need to be cleared . You can actually clear other crystals with it. I place my jewelry on a selenite stick to clear it after wearing. If there is someone you need to release in 2017 read my blog on Cutting Energetic Cords.
8. Moonstone
Moonstone has always been a crystal that has fascinated me. With its gleaming iridescent flash and reflection of light, I almost feel like it draws you into its own mystical world. Moonstone can be white, peach, or grey, However I choose to put white Rainbow Moonstone on my jewelry because I love the way its energy radiates, not to mention it's beautiful! It is is a stone for new beginnings, inner growth, and strength. It soothes emotional instability, and stabilizes emotions providing calmness. Rainbow Moonstone provides psychic protection, and aids in lucid dreaming, and acts as a prism,diffusing energy throughout the aura. It enhances intuition, promotes inspiration, success, and good fortune in love and business matters. It aids in digestion, eliminates toxins, and fluid retention. It alleviates degenerative conditions of the skin, hair, and eyes. I will say thatMoonstone is my all time favorite crystal for fertility and hormonal balance. It powerfully affects the female reproductive system, enhancing fertility and promoting a healthy pregnancy. It helps with PMS, and Menopause, and lets just say , I love that it helps with water retention. I use Moonstone on my New Mom Collection, Fertility and Pregnancy Collectionand my Beauty Inside and Out Collection
Apophyllite stones are super powerful. They aid you to become spiritually uplifted. It helps you to release negative energy, stress, anxiety, and tension. It aids you to be happier, calmer, and more at peace, while giving you energetic balance and infusing your auric field with high vibrational energy from the spiritual and angelic realms. These crystals will stimulate and clear the Third Eye Chakra, intensifying your inner vision, psychic ability, and clearing any blockages in the crown chakra. I wear an apophyllite point or use it as a dowsing pendulum whenever I need intuitive answers to questions from my guides. This stone is excellent for clarity of thought and self love. Physically, Apophyllite is helpful for respiratory issues and allergies. It is also useful for vision and tired eyes. It improves memory and promotes structure and organization in daily life.
10. Shungite
Shungite is without a doubt my #1 recommendation. It is my favorite crystal for so many reasons. It is a MUST have in 2017! Shungiteis said to calm and relax anyone using or near it. This is due to its protective energies and rejection of negative energy. It provides shielding and protection from EMF electromagnetic radiation . It is the only known natural material known to contain fullerenes, which are powerful anti-oxidants. It is said to absorb and eliminate anything that is a health hazard to human life, and it has active metaphysical properties with strong healing powers. Shungite can even purify water ! I use a large pitcher with Shungite chips and let the stones clear and infuse the water with healing energy. Shungite infuses your auric field with light,dispels negative energy, and it allows only positive and beneficial energy to reach you. It is such a powerful crystal, that it even measures on an OHM meter .It also alleviates a wide variety of physical complaints such as heart difficulty, allergies, skin diseases, arthritis, hair and skin rejuvenation.